Posts Tagged ‘divorce’

Dear Zizz

14Feb08

Happy Valentines Day.
If you told me, back in the darkest days of our separation, how happy we would be, (and you did) how deeply in love we should be, (and you did) how connected and sharing it could be between us, I am sure I would have simply closed up even more emotionally, became defensive, [...]


Dear Zizz

07Dec07

Last night was fantastic, in so many ways. I liked where your head was at, I loved where my head was at, especially when it was between your thighs. I want to sum up the game plan we laid out last night, just so that we remember as many of the wonderful thoughts as [...]


After seven years, we are calling it off. Now we are going to learn how to make a different life, together and apart, sharing in the raising of our Lovely daughter, 3 years old, and smart as a whip.

I think it comes down to unreasonable expectations, poor priorities and incompatible sexuality, but I don’t want to play a blame game here, just list some of my observations, I can’t even get them straight in my own head, let alone bits and bytes, so this may get a bit chaotic. The thing I want to tell you about is the hows of it all.