New link in the blogroll

19Mar08

Spanknsparkle, at her blog sexyswinging has always posted succinctly and openly about what it means to embark on a swinging lifestyle. As Zizz and I have discussed and flirted with having an open, poly, or swinging relationship, I almost feel like Spank is a scout out there saying “This way is safe, but beware the trolls yonder!” Zizz and I will continue follow our own path, but am also sure we will watch Spank’s progress along hers, for as long as she shares. Anyway, I figured its about time to add her to my blogroll, for whatever its worth, probably a hit or two a month!

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Tags: blogs, poly, swinging

How to buy roses

15Mar08

I figured it out, so for any men wandering about, let me share. I finally worked out how to buy flowers.

I have done flowers a few times before, but it never really worked. Always seemed to get me further into trouble, or leave Z thinking I am cheap because I ONLY spent thirty bucks on them. Sure, a few times its been net positive, flowers when going shopping before a dinner party, for the table, is never a bad thing, and birthday flowers, along with a bigger gift has been appreciated, but I’ve always wanted to have a bunch of flowers be a big deal, there is a little romantic in me, after all.

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Tags: advice

Work week(s) from hell

15Mar08

Actually three weeks. It has been nuts, just kept getting more and more hectic. Started with Darling getting sick, just kiddie sniffles and croup, but trips to doctors and pharmacists, and what have you, then Zizz getting even busier at her job, then dealines, combined with shitty attitude caused by shitty bonus at work. and my attitude there had been in the toilet for weeks before that.

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Tags: happy/sad, slump, Zizz

More about Piercings

20Feb08

Almost a year ago I decided to get another piercing “down there.” This was in the midst of the dark days of the separation from Zizz, I think I wanted to make some sort of “I am my own man” statement, and I was so used to the other one that it had become just another part of me. Probably also a bit of self-punishment there, but lets not dive too deeply into that topic now…

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Tags: cock, masturbation, navel gazing., piercing

Piercings

20Feb08

TMI Tuesday this week was about piercings. I thought the subject deserved a full blown post. (Or two) My first genital piercing was done in about 1997, it was the first piece of body modification, aside from a single earring from high school, and remained my only one for about 5 years. It passes transversely under the skin on my shaft, a half inch below the head of my cock, called a frenum piercing because it goes under that sensitive little ridge of skin on a man called the frenulum. Initially, I got it pierced at a 12 gauge, and have worn various styles of curved barbells, rings and straight barbells through it.

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Tags: cock, masturbation, navel gazing., piercing

Trite shit

18Feb08

What with all the crazy, intense and personal posts lately, its been a while since I just chatted, checked in with the old blogosphere and said, Hi, my life is insane and busy and boring as ever, how’s yours? I got fleshbotted, picked up for fellatio friday, and what with the HNT post, its been a bit of a traffic jam around here, but very few comments, so I start to wonder, do I have any regular readers yet? Does anyone stop by to see what I am up to? Or is this blog all just boring derivative drivel. I think thats the nature of sex blogging though, most people are just passing by, and aren’t going to comment. Zizz loves it, lately she’s been very complimentary about the recent posts, even helpful, taking the hnt shots and making other suggestions, and it really has become a great therapy for me, just a way of getting shit straight in the old cranium, so don’t worry, I’ll probably keep posting whether you acknowledge me or not.

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Tags: fitness, life, rambling, sex blogs

Fellatio Friday #8

15Feb08

Here is Fellatio Friday #8, your gateway to hot and spicy blowjob-related posts as submitted to The Fellatrix by their authors. To join the fun and contribute to Fellatio Friday #9, please read the Fellatio Friday participation instructions. Here are this week’s submissions:

At the condo, by Vertical Dancer

I Love, by Rori

Butter and Rope – Part Two, by Dirty Debbie

Putting out all the stops and going down, by JRM

The Rule of Blowjobs for Women, by Selena Kitt

Black lips suck cock the best, by the Cam Lover

One Lucky Cocksucker, by Slutty Wife

The Apprehension Quickly Disappeared, by Blowjob Babe

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Dear Zizz

14Feb08

Happy Valentines Day.

If you told me, back in the darkest days of our separation, how happy we would be, (and you did) how deeply in love we should be, (and you did) how connected and sharing it could be between us, I am sure I would have simply closed up even more emotionally, became defensive, attacked you verbally. (and I did).

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Tags: complicated situation, divorce, happy/sad, love

HNT on a pole.

13Feb08

Just one though, I hated the backdrop in most of them. Zizz did a fantastic job given 3 minutes notice. God I love you babe!

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Tags: HNT, Pole

Conversations with a dick.

12Feb08

Background, Di a very dear friend of Zizz. She is one of the fittest people I know, and has these lovely C-cup tits on a rock hard body. I know they can’t possibly be real, but who cares, they scream motorboat, Oh, and she goes to pole classes!

Zizz: Di says you did great in pole class this afternoon…

Lower Head: hell yeah, we were hot, smoking! Who could resist us?

Upper Head: Uh huh, easy for you to say, that was me doing all the work there, remember? Besides, Zizz said did great, as in had a good, sweaty workout, nothing about how we looked, Di probably still sees a flabby guy who dresses funny and couldn’t pull himself up the pole at all. Don’t forget, shes gay. That means not into you, little man.

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Tags: bi, little head speaks, threesomes, Zizz